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Build Confidence as a Gay or Bisexual Man in Midlife
MATARA Life Coaching helps gay and bisexual men in midlife develop authentic confidence through specialised, evidence-based coaching. Founded by Isaac Goldfarb, we understand the unique challenges you face and provide the tools to embrace your true self.
About MATARA Coaching
Specialised Focus
Created specifically to address the unique confidence challenges facing gay and bisexual men in their middle years.
Proven Experience
Helping clients embrace their authentic selves through midlife transitions, coming out later in life, and professional development.
Holistic Approach
Comprehensive methodology addressing personal, professional, and relational confidence for lasting transformation.
Meet Your Coach: Isaac Goldfarb
I brings both professional expertise and personal experience to my role as your coach. As a certified life coach with specialised training in confidence issues and as a member of the LGBTQ+, I understand firsthand the unique journey of navigating midlife as a gay man.
My commitment to creating judgment-free spaces allows clients to explore vulnerability, build genuine confidence, and discover their authentic voices. My compassionate yet direct approach helps men break through barriers to self-acceptance.
You can read more about my journey in my main MATARA website here.
My Unique Approach

Authentic Confidence
Living fully as your true self
Cognitive Techniques
Evidence-based methods for lasting change
Emotional Intelligence
Developing deeper self-awareness
Shame Resilience
Healing past wounds and embracing self-worth
My coaching approach addresses the specific confidence challenges gay and bisexual men face in midlife. I offer both intimate group workshops (8-10 clients) and personalised one-on-one coaching to create the right environment for your growth.
Coaching Programs
Private Coaching Sessions
6 one-on-one sessions tailored to your specific
needs, available virtually or in person
6-Week "Building Confidence" Group Program
Our transformational group experience combines structured learning with peer support for maximum growth
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Free Consultation
Begin with a complimentary 30-minute session to discuss your goals and how we can work together to boost your confidence journey.
Program Selection
Choose the approach that best fits your needs - private coaching, group program, or even both.
Begin Your Transformation
Start your journey to authentic confidence in a safe, confidential space designed specifically for gay and bisexual men like you.
Ready to embrace your authentic self with confidence? Schedule your free consultation and take the first step toward transformation.
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